11 Women Share How Tech Skills Gives You More Control Over Your Life

By Randle Browning

If I could gather every article I’ve read in the last few years about the trouble with women and work-life balance—and the concept of “having it all”—I’d have binders full of articles (see what I did there?).

And even if “having it all” is a loaded term, it makes sense. I see more and more of my friends looking at the traditional 9-to-5 model and realizing it doesn’t work for them.

These days, we don’t have to choose between a typical full-time office job (and the schedule restrictions that come with it) and opting out of the workforce entirely or choosing a less rewarding job. With the rise of remote work—also known as flexible work, working from home, or telecommuting—you can work in a satisfying, high-paying job when and where you want to.

According to a Timewise study, “more than 5.4 million people already work in flexible roles, while an additional 629,000 people (mainly women) want to work, but can’t find a job with the flexibility to fit with their caring responsibilities” (via FlexJobs).

It’s not just working mothers who can benefit from flexible work, though. In a Harvard Business Review article, Henrik Bresman found that, “Work-life balance doesn’t mean the same thing to all. Millennials strive for work-life balance, but this tends to mean work-me balance, not work-family balance.” (HBR viaFlexJobs).

A flexible job can give you the control over your day that allows you to spend more time on your own passions, take care of your kids, or just stop wasting valuable hours and energy commuting to an office.

I’m lucky enough to have a full-time remote job at Skillcrush, and it’s been life-changing. I can schedule my day how I want, skip the daily commute, travel without taking vacation time, and go to the doctor’s office or run a quick errand without asking for permission. Plus, I gave away everything you might call “business casual” without a second glance. ^_^

It’s exciting to see Skillcrush students learn tech skills that can give them the same freedom. People with tech skills are especially well-positioned when it comes to finding flexible work. First off, they can earn a living freelancing and work on their own time. But because of their skills, they are set up to succeed in a working environment that relies entirely on what you can do with your personal computer. A 2015 Glassdoor article showed that 14 of the top 25 jobs for finding work-life balance were in tech.

We interviewed 11 women and asked them exactly how learning new tech skills has made a difference in work-life balance.

“Having tech skills has allowed me so much flexibility in so many ways! First, being tech savvy helped get job offers right out of college, which gave me a lot of options when I was graduating and deciding what to do next with my life. What’s even better is that because I had these tech skills to fall back on, I was able to turn down these job offers and start my own business right out of college. This gave me a head start toward building a location-independent life and business, that’s enabled me to move to a different state and start living the life that really matched my personality and work/life balance.

I was able to grow my business to the point where my husband could quit his job to join my company, and we now develop software tools together with a small but mighty team. We just had a baby and I was able to take time off, and now I’m working part-time (all from home) and we both get to spend time with our little one, too.”

“The flexible opportunities that come with learning tech skills allow me to fit work around my life rather than the other way around. Have to run to the pediatrician? No problem. My daughter’s school needs a last-minute volunteer? Be right there! Need to travel to see the in-laws? Heck, I can work from the car! Perfectly portable, endlessly interesting and fun to boot!”

“I love tech. But I also love living in what’s pretty much the middle of nowhere — Northern Vermont. Tech jobs in this area are limited, to say the least, and most of them don’t pay all that well. But the beauty of tech is that I don’t have to be sitting in an office somewhere to have an awesome job. I can work from home (which is currently a tiny house situated on an “island” between a river and a spring-fed swamp, complete with high-speed internet) while doing something I love — in my case, that’s content marketing. Without tech skills, I’d probably still be working as an insurance agent, or in advertising sales, neither of which I was truly passionate about.”

“I feel that there are a lot of benefits in having tech skills. For one, it will help with our work-life balance by providing us with opportunities to work remotely. It can give us the flexibility to work from home if we need to care for loved ones, work from our favorite locations (like a beach, cafe, or another country), and offer us the ability to do the activities we love and want to do when we want to do them. I have missed special occasions in the past due to “normal” work hours and schedules I couldn’t get out of, and I am confident that with tech skills, that won’t happen again (or as often as it used to).”

“Some years ago, I was traveling down the escalator in the London Underground and I saw an advert: ‘Learn computer skills.’ I had a vision of sitting at a desk in my home, working flexible hours, children running around me, earning a decent wage and dictating my own hours.

This may not be everyone’s idea of their future career – but my dream literally has come true and is really working. Now that I have tech skills I do work flexible hours from home as a freelancer, plus I also recently landed my first ‘proper’ job in 7 years as a junior web developer, which also allows me to work from home for most of the week.

So now, I work from home, earn a decent wage, spend time with my children, code (which I love) and continue to learn. Thank you, Skillcrush!”

“Tech skills have positively impacted my work-life balance. My previous role in social media marketing made a predictable schedule difficult to maintain. Learning more coding skills opened doors at other companies that value work-life balance. I am able to work remotely, collaborate with others and pursue further professional development. I feel less stuck in my career, and empowered to push my career forward without sacrificing other parts of my life.”

“I’ve been a graphic designer for years, but over the last year I’ve taken it further by learning how to code WordPress sites. I discovered that I really love working on the code side of things, and I’m grateful for it because it’s opened up a lot of doors for me.

There’s comfort in knowing I have in-demand skills, and I love that as a freelance developer I’m in control of my work life. I don’t have to ask someone if I can have time off, or have to deal with a busy commute. I can work at home with a cat on my lap, or I can be somewhere else on my laptop. And I really like that the more work I put in, the more income I see. There’s no salary cap. It’s what I make of it, and that feels good.”

“Gaining tech skills has made my life better because it has opened up new opportunities, allowed me to advance more than I believe I could have without digital skills, and of course get paid more. I always loved to create things. Articles, infographics, slideshows—you name it. Essentially, I love putting together helpful information for others.

Since I’ve been able to couple that passion for creating with coding, life certainly shifted dramatically. Being able to code and use tools like Illustrator and Photoshop not only allows me to create better things for my own purposes (like learntocodewith.me), but it also makes me a more attractive job candidate. And, of course, get compensated better.

When it comes to “work-life balance,” though, there is certainly more “work” than “life” right now. However, that is completely by choice. I know that if I wanted to have more “life” and less “work,” it could easily be arranged.

…But I love what I do every day! So, I chose to design my life like this. Which is another important distinction: having tech skills gives you more freedom to set up your life the way you want to.”

“From coding and web design to social media and apps, tech has totally changed how I manage my career and my life. I honestly don’t know where I’d be without tech at this point! It’s opened up so many huge career opportunities, but it’s also been responsible for the majority of my personal and professional networking. Since I spend part of my year not based in large metropolitan areas, it’s so incredibly helpful to be able to use social media and apps to connect with people in ways I wouldn’t be able to otherwise.”

“For me, learning tech skills has made a world of difference in both my career AND my personal life. The act of actually learning tech skills allowed me a much-needed escape from a less than fulfilling day job at the time and an opportunity to think bigger for myself. I ultimately learned tech skills to better position my custom-made bridal accessories that I sold on Etsy at the time. In an effort to differentiate myself from other Etsy sellers, I dove head first into WordPress without knowing a single thing about what I was doing.

There were definitely hours upon hours spent Googling, lots of trial and error, and even a mistakenly deleted website that may or may not have resulted in a few tears…. Little by little though things started to make sense and it didn’t take long before others started reaching out asking me to build websites for them too. I was eventually able to put my notice in at my day job and started freelancing, all the while continuing to build my skills and take on new and different projects.”

“I wanted to do something remotely because I was tired of the 2-4 hour a day commutes that I had done for nearly two decades.

I decided Skillcrush was right for me because I am the type of learner who needs guidance and support — a real person to talk to and who allowed me to ask questions. So I took the Web Design course, learned design fundamentals as well as CSS and HTML.

About two months after I started the course (maybe less?), I applied for a job in tech doing software support that includes some CSS and HTML for client website redesign. Because I could demonstrate interest and skill in coding, I was able to apply for the job, which required some interest or involvement in tech. It’s amazing to me that I was actually able to change careers pretty quickly, successfully, and relatively inexpensively.

Plus working remotely is amazing. My quality of life has vastly improved. My commute is 60 seconds. I can work in PJs if I want to. I don’t have to fret about getting to bed too late because I save time not having to spend time getting ready and commuting to and from work. I never have Sunday night dread anymore. I get to have lunch with my dogs and play fetch with them in sunshine. When I’m done, I’m done. I just shut off my computer and I’m home. I have set hours so there’s no issue with working too much. If I want to, I can travel somewhere, take my laptop (though they provided me with a work computer), and work while traveling. Other perks are not having to spend tons of money on buying lunch. The list goes on.”