7 Tips To Take On Your Sunday Slump

By AnnaMarie Houlis

You know that stress characterized by laying in bed on a Sunday night with a spinning head, wondering how you’ll ever possibly get through the imminent work week? That’s what I like to call the Sunday Scaries—the kind of irrational worrying about your impending future when your weekend comes to a close. The emails—oh the emails!—through which you’ll finally have to dig come Monday morning. You have meetings scheduled back-to-back. You have an interview and a business lunch and a billion deadlines and a vet appointment because your cat’s not eating, and you don’t even think you have time to eat yourself.

Is the exhausting weekend you just had “unwinding” really already coming to a close?

It is. It really is. But you don’t have to succumb the Sunday night stress. The Sunday Scaries don’t have to consume you like the pile of work waiting for you. We spoke with seven professional working women who share how they beat the Sunday Scaries when the stresses of the approaching week kick in.

“I haven’t dreaded Monday in the last four years, as I’ve discovered that the key to beating the Sunday Scaries is to find something that you love to do — something that makes you want to jump out of the bed and run to work in the morning,” says Samantha Diane, visibility strategist, entrepreneur, and aerialist. “For me, it was starting my own business and working with clients who I truly care about. If you’re doing something you want to do, when Monday rolls around you’ll be glad, not scared. And even though I love what I do, I always make sure I get in a workout on Monday, as getting in exercise on Monday can set the tone for a positive and productive week.” Nothing’s stopping you from making a career change—and you can ditch Sunday night stress entirely with a new career that’s fulfilling. (And between flexible time, remote work, and tons of opportunity and job security, can we suggest tech?)

“I definitely battle the Sunday Scaries—I have a full-time job and two side hustles, so my weekends are filled with work on my passion projects,” says Taylor Morrison, founder of Emancipation. “The pressure of my businesses and my day job often comes to a head on Sunday evenings. I created a Sunday night ritual to help me fight against the Sunday Scaries: I shut off my laptop and put away my phone, and I don’t look at them until Monday morning. Then I take a bath while reading a good book. That self-care practice helps me beat the Sunday Scaries every time.”

“I have a habit that isn’t perfect but seems to be working well,” says Tiffany Humfeld, founder of Peace, Love & Wine. “I put all my calendar items on Google Calendar (including some important ‘to dos’ as ‘all day actions’ so they show up at the top. For these, I emphasize priority by putting one to five exclamation points in front of the to-do item to indicate the level of priority). I review my calendar before I go to bed and make updates or additions of any new items. This also serves as a reminder for me to send a confirmation message to anyone I am meeting with the following day, so people (including myself) remember the meeting is scheduled. I’m also playing with the free version of HubSpot as a task list where I can schedule reminder emails and check items off the list by date priority.”

“After many years of realizing how daunting Sunday was, I decided to turn the weekend on its head by creating a ritual Sunday Funday with all my best friends,” says Lori Cheek, architect-turned-entrepreneur and founder and CEO of Cheekd. “There’s a group of 15 or so of us that meet every Sunday for almost two years around 3:30 p.m. in the afternoon for happy hour at our local watering hole on the Lower East Side. We play Scrabble, Jenga, Connect Four, and all sorts of other fun board games and hang out until 7:00 p.m., which is still early enough to get home for dinner and go to bed early. It’s a solid three and a half hours of fun where we’re not focused on the beginning of the work week. The other fun thing is that—because there’s so many of us—it’s almost always someone’s birthday, so we often throw that celebration into the mix.”

“When I’m facing the Sunday Scaries, which I remember getting even as a kid in school, I phone a friend,” says Gabrielle Costello, a content marketing supervisor. “Even if I don’t want to, I find a way to get out of my own head and get connected with someone. It can be a friend that I haven’t caught up within a while or a call to my grandma to say hello. This usually helps put things into perspective so that I can focus on preparing for the week. I also find that if my space is cluttered, it makes it harder to beat the Sunday blues. I’ll stop everything I’m doing to tidy up and it usually helps significantly.”

“The idea of meal prepping is totally fun for some people,” says Angel M. Hoodye, a licensed professional counselor, certified anger resolution therapist, and the owner of Flourishing Hope Counseling PLLC. “If this is you, then get rocking. Blast those meals out. This gives you one less thing to have to do during the upcoming week. Cooking can be very relaxing and a wonderful way to try something new; flex your creative muscles in the kitchen while still being productive for the upcoming week. This helps to decrease your stress as you get geared up for the upcoming work week.”

“Sometimes I have a little talk with myself,” says Vanessa Valiente, a personal stylist and the creator of V-Style. “‘Hey, Monday is not a big deal. You kill it every week, and the weekend will be here again before you know it. It’s silly to waste a moment of this beautiful life on anxiety.’ If a talk with myself doesn’t work, I reach out to someone who knows me well. My boyfriend or fellow anxious girlfriends are beyond helpful when I am overwhelmed on a Sunday.”

This piece was written by AnnaMarie Houlis and originally appeared on SkillCrush.